Brene Brown Sliding Doors

Brené brown is a professor and social scientist.

Brene brown sliding doors.

Trust is something that i battle with and i know many of you do too. These moments are called sliding door moments after the movie sliding doors. Read on what i ve found through research is that trust is built in very small moments which i call sliding door moments. This speech was originally delivered at ucla s royce hall in 2015.

Oh it just feels like an incredible understatement to say how grateful i am to be here with all of you. He argues that trust is one of those sliding door moments saying there is the opportunity to build trust and there is the opportunity to betray. Brown provides the following as examples of small ways that trust is built. Every time we choose courage we make everyone around us a little better and the world a little braver.

Gottman calls these the sliding door moments. Okay you read the title of this post and thought what is a sliding door moment and why are my vows such a moment good question. Dr gottman says in any interaction there is a possibility of connection with your partner or turning away from your partner in the following clip dr gottman shares an example of a sliding door moment in his relationship with his wife. I feel like i have a relationship with many of you on social media and you.

Here s a passage from daring greatly one of my favorite books written by one of my favorite authors brene brown. We must risk vulnerability in order to build trust and simultaneously it is the building of trust that inspires vulnerability. Whether the behavior seeks to be outright cruel manipulative and spiteful or simply is an innocent omission of information a forgetful moment or just. People by nature are complicated and built for conflict.

To choose not to connect when the opportunity is there is a betrayal.